Daddy Dom – How to be a Good Daddy Dom…

Daddy Dom

This is what it’s all about…

To be a good Daddy Dom is much more involved than simply being a Dominant sexual partner…It’s a commitment to protect and nurture your Baby Girl and be concerned for her well being.

Her personal development is also of the utmost importance and it is the job of the Daddy Dom to encourage his Little to be the best she can at whatever she does.

Punishments do form part of this development, but are never administered just to be aggressive ¬†or to bully or hurt her…This is how she learns to serve you better and how you expect to be treated. They are always followed by plenty of love and cuddles.

There is a huge responsibility to being a good Daddy Dom and if you do not have the required strength of character or a high level of compassion for your Baby Girl, maybe being a Daddy Dom is not for you. You will be challenged as your role develops and your Little will look to you for leadership and direction so be certain you are up to the job…There will be tears and there will be laughter…Be there for both.

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  1. I need a Daddy dom in my life!

  2. Hi! I am a new little and I have a fantastic Daddy. Daddy and I are going away on our first trip together next week and we will be meeting Daddies parents. Do you have any suggestions on good punishments for me if I misbehave that are not to noisy as we will be staying with Daddies parents?

    Also can you help me with some verbal suggestions that Daddies like to hear so that I make sure I’m an extra good girl for my Daddy?

    Thank you for your help and guidance!

    • Well Peanut…All of the punishments I like would be extremely noisy :) Perhaps you should be prepared and bring a gag with you. In all seriousness, maybe you could simply visit his parents, have a great time and leave the play for when you get back home…Playtime is always better when you have no restrictions.

      Only you will know what your Daddy likes to hear but you can certainly make sure you let him know how much you love and appreciate him and also tell him that you are always keen to be the best you can be at whatever you do…Yes there is a sexual side to our relationships but we long to look after you and love to see you making your way in the world.

      Remember that there is no ‘one size fits all’ for this type of relationship and communication is the key to understanding each others needs.

      With love x

  3. Hiiiii, so I kinda have a question and its really difficult to ask because its really upsetting right now but I’ll try to be as clear as I can about it. I met my Daddy back when I didn’t know about DDlg and I thought I was a switch. Since then, we’ve gone through several ‘phases’. I tried to be dominant for him because I met him and like, instantly loved his personality and wanted to help him. I sucked. Badly. I explained that, and we were friends for a long time, during which I went though severe depression, anxiety, and suicidal stuffs. He got sick of it and asked me to be his submissive so her could take care of me. Then I discovered pet play and that became a huge part of our lives. Then my best friend in the lifestyle introduced me to DDlg and Daddy and I have been stumbling our way through it. It fits our dynamic well most of the time, but he still acts like I’m a switch even though I have told him multiple times I’m not and that being dominant confuses and upsets me the moment I return to ‘normal’. Its not that he’s ignoring me so much as he needs it. He keeps pushing it and it really upsets me I can’t fulfill all his needs. I don’t know what to do, I love him, but I hate being dominant because it goes against so much of who I am… please, do you have any advice? I’m so lost and I can’t ask Daddy because he just gets really upset and that makes things worse.

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